Today I have decided to write about women. I think that they are important enough for this world. They do everything for their family and sometimes without expecting anything in return. There are a lot of women who live like slaves. Their men don't appreciate them and even they are unfaithful to. I don't understand that kind of people. They say :“I want to share my life with you” and then, they look down on, are unfaithful, lie and everything that hurts a lot. I saw that when we celebrate the women's day, on 8th of March, men usually don't make presents to their women. Nevertheless, when we celebrate the men's day everything changes. Their women always try to buy something to them, to be kind and make them feel good. Why are we so different?
In my case, it happened the same. My boyfriend didn't make me any kind of present because he told me that his family don't celebrate it. However, in my family always we buy something nice to all the women of the family. We try to show them that they are appreciated and loved. I always buy something for my mum that day because she deserves the best, although she was wrong with me in more than one situation. In Romania this day is considered as an equivalent o Mother's Day, where children also give small presents to their mothers or grandmothers. Moreover, on this day it is customary for men to give the women in their lives -whether they were wives, girlfriends, daughters, mothers, grandmothers, colleagues, etc. - flowers and small or big gifts. Nowadays, in more than one country is lost that customary. In my opinion, that is really sad. I think we can change the world if we want and make it better, without wars, lies, etc.
sábado, 20 de marzo de 2010
domingo, 3 de enero de 2010
SEE YOU!
I would like to finish my blog with a few words about one of the most important things in life. I clearly believe that a person should be sincere, honest, responsible and friendly as I try to be. For this reason, in my life I only want persons with these features. I hate lies and unfaithful persons because my family had been separated for these reasons. So, I hope that people try to be honest in everything.
See you!
See you!
As you saw it, I tried to talk you a little about important people in my life. But, there are a lot of people that I would like to talk about. Nevertheless, I decided to talk about two more persons who are one of the most important persons in my life and they are my boyfriend and my niece.
Firstly, I would talk about my boyfriend. His name is Peter and he is 22. He is very special in my life because I met him when I came here, in Spain. My life had done a volte-face and I really was very sad. I found out that my mum had met another man and he was going to live with us. When he moved to our house, my worse nightmare began. My boyfriend and I were children, we only were 13 and 17. But this is our amazing history. We began to go out everyday and we had a lot of fun together. Now, we are still together and we love very much each other. He is a good person and he tries to reflect his a love in his own way. For him it is difficult to do it because he isn't a person who likes reflect his feelings. Well, only when he is upset reflects a lot his feelings of anger. Nevertheless, our important problem is my mum who doesn't want him as my boyfriend because he hasn't too much studies. He only has finished Secondary school, but now he is looking for a course. I hope my mum understands that he is taking care of me a lot and he really loves me, these are the most important things for me. I don't want a rich, handsome and intelligent boy (with a degree as thinks my mum), I want a simple, sincere, intelligent (it isn't necessary to have a degree according to me) boy who loves me very much and takes care of me like a princess (it was a joke jej). And my boyfriend has these features. Since now, I haven't met another better and if I am sincere I don't want another one.
The other person, it is my niece and her name is Gabriela. She is my sun and when I talk to her I feel so happy! She is only 2 and she is beautiful. She has blue big eyes like my sister, curly dark hair and she is tall at her age. She is very intelligent, but she is like my cat. She breaks all my grandmother's plants! She is a danger in the house. I really miss her, she went to Romania with my sister and my brother-in-law 18 months ago but I saw her in October last year. She had grown so fast that she didn't recognise me. It is understandable because when they went to there she only was 6 months, more and less. I hope she will be an important person when she will be bigger and have all the things she wants. I wish her the best!
"Petite"
"Petite" is the name of my little cat. She is only 3 months and 3 weeks but she is very bad. I am very upset with her right now. She has broken all the things in the house. Firstly, she has ruined my Christmas tree which has been done by my poor boyfriend as a surprise for me. I remember one day when I came back for work. He had gone to buy me one and he was decorating my Chrismas tree! It really surprised me a lot because he isn't that kind of person. But he told me that he had done it in order not to feel myself alone for this season festive. It was very nice from his part to do it. Secondly, she has clung my mother's curtain. Then, she has eaten all my mum's plants and the worse she poops always there if I am not. I don't know why she is so stupid sometimes, I don't know what to do more. I have taught her to do everything in a good way, but she doesn't listen to me. However, I love her a lot, she is very sweet when clearly she doesn't those things. She always comes and kiss me and we have a lot of fun when we play together. She is always there and I don't feel alone. I think this is vey important. Although people say that dogs are a better company and they are more intelligent than cats, I prefer cats. They are smaller and I have cats since I was a child. I can't change my mind and have a dog. Moreover, I only like little dogs because the bigger one are difficult to grow up and more in a flat. They are nice, but I wouldn't like to have one of them. Generally, I like a lot animals and this is why I still want pets in my house. They could be our happiness in the house and in our lives.
First call
The first call of this day, Sunday 3, it was a friend of my mother in order to tell me about a new job. I like how it sounds, they pay the just but the most interesting is that it is an afternoon work. In the morning I go to university and in the afternoon at work. But I have another problem because I don't wanna lose my actual work. I like it a lot too due to my flexible schedule. I think that the only person who could help me in my decision is my mother because my boyfriend have told me that if I would accepted this new work I won't have time enough to study and do another things. So, he quite clear told me not to go to this work. I wonder what mu mother will tell me. This afternoon I will call her and talk to her.
sábado, 2 de enero de 2010
What about a holiday?
Well, according to the Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, a holiday is "in the English-speaking world, a day designated as having special significance for which individuals, a government, or a religious group have deemed that observation is warranted. Examples of types of holidays include:
-Official or unofficial observances of religious, national, or cultural significance, often accompanied by celebrations or festivities
-A general leave of absence or vacation from a regular occupation for rest or recreation
-A specific trip or journey for the purposes of recreation or tourism."
However, holiday can mean a lot of things because it depends on the people. For me, for example, a holiday means to disconnect of everything, to relax oneself, to have magnificent views, to have good company, etc. It is a long time ago that I haven't enjoyed a good holiday. Now, we should enjoy not to study because there are our winter vacation! For me, it is the worse to have exams just after the vacation. So, we can't call this vacation, at least, for me it isn't. I am sick of so many exams and houseworks for just before the vacation! I haven't really enjoyed because I am all the time working or studying and I think I will never finish.
On the contrary, there are people who like to have another kind of vacation like, for example, in the space.
Space tourism is already here, but the problem is, it costs a spare $20 million to pay for a ticket to the International Space Station. People are crazy! How could they spend so much money? There are a lot of poor people who don't have anything to eat. It is so unfair that there are people who throw money in everything and others who don't have enough to buy a piece of bread. It seems that the final vacation frontier is the space for the richest people. Experts think that flights to a space hotel complex will begin by 2026, with under 100 manned flights per year, jumping to 1,000 flights a decade later, and 6,000 annually by 2050. It is surprinsingly amazing! Can we ask for more? In the future, there will be people visiting the space or even living there.
In conclusion, no comment...
Cats and dogs
Everyone thinks that cats and dogs don't get along with each other. We can see a lot of videos or images when they are fighting. The most amazing is the relationship between my boyfriend and my cat. They are always fighting like "cats and dogs"! They are complaining both all day, but they follow in the same. I listen so often "miau" and "au" that I am getting crazy. Nevertheless, I have seen a lot of cats and dogs that they get along with each other. For example, I had a cat which got along better with a dog than with another cats. I remember that I always saw them sleeping together, the dog used to hug the cat; they were so sweet!
With a little patience, a dog and cat can often coexist peacefully and even become friends. When acquiring a new dog or cat it is a good idea to research the breed and personality of the pet to see if they are likely to get along with another specie. In particular, some dog breeds tend to be aggressive hunters and are not the best choice to have with a cat. There are also some more aggressive cat breeds that can be difficult too.
Giving a separate area for both pets is helpful. This is particularly true for cats that need a spot where they feel safe. It also allows both pets to adapt to each other at their own speed. Keeping separate feeding areas is also helpful and reduces potential conflict. Also make sure both receive plenty of attention so that they both feel secure and don't feel like they are in competition with each other.
To sum up, some cats and dogs become great friends with little intervention on their owner's part, while in some cases tolerance of one another is as good as it gets.
Tyson
Today it is a very sad day because Tyson died. Well, I will explain you who is he. Tyson is an Irish dog which I met when the IVAJ granted me a scholarship and I went to Ireland. He was considered one of the members of the family with whom I stayed a month and I learned a lot. He was very old, nevertheless he was very nice and good dog. I can't believe that he died. I remember those unforgivable days when we played together and had a lot of fun running beside the river. Moreover, I feel so sad because his owner is an old woman who lives alone because her husband and son died, the first one because of a cancer, and the second one because of a road accident. Nevertheless, she has another daughter but they live far from each other. I think it is very sad to live alone. I particulary couldn't to live alone and I couldn't talk to anyone, although in her case she had a dog. Me, I have a cat too, but I often feel alone because she can't speak her mind when I have doubts, for example. We can play and have a lot of fun, but it isn't the same like a person. For example, a cat don't tell you anything when you are angry and you discuss with her, on the contrary a person, she/he returns it to you.
To sum up, although everyone dies it hurt us according to our relationship with it and it could hurt a lot even though it is an animal or a person. There are people who like so much animals that if her/his pet died could be the worse.
viernes, 1 de enero de 2010
PAULA
Some years ago I wished to be like my sister because everyone loved her. She was always appreciated by all the people because she was intelligent, beautiful; she always got the first place in school ( in Romania it is used to give diplomas to the best pupils or students according to their average that they have obtained) and she could have any boy that she wished. On the contrary, it was me. I was the opposite, I used to obtain second place in school, my parents always thought that I was the black sheep. Moreover, they thought that the only solution it was to marry me with a boy from our village so that I would live near them. It is true that when I was a child I never liked to study and the most amazing it was that my mum used to do my homework. My teachers often asked me about the type of the handwriting due to it was different of mine but I remember that I always told them that it was my handwriting and home I could write slowly. Nevertheless, when I was nine my parents divorced and my mum came to Spain. I remained with my grandparents and they took care of me and my sister. They already had taken care of my sister since She was one year more and less. In that moment my life took a volte-face and I began to change. I started to study and I got the first place in school. I really felt very proud of me because I never had thought I could be good like my sister. Since then I've begun a good student and now, I feel so bad if I get bad marks and I run circles around the matter. Therefore, another important thing has changed and it is about my sister. When she was 21, she married and she didn't go to university because before she prefered to make a professional course. Now, she is trying to look for an university. It is very strange because now she is 23 and I am 18, and me I am already doing a degree and she is still not. I think that life has done a volte-face in our case.
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